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01-24-2010, 08:38 PM
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:::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
maya has been put to sleep at 4.00pm today.
she has been infected by FIP as per the vet.
i could not stand to see her suffered so, with a heartbreaking decision..i asked the vet to let her go peacefully.
for the past 2 weeks i have cared for her.but it seems that the virus is too strong for her and at last she gave in.
i am sorry guys if my action is considered as cruel or inhumane.
the last few minutes with her, i told her that i really love her and i asked for her forgiveness. she looked in my teary eyes as if she knows.i hope she knows how i loved her so deeply and dearly.
maya, may you rest in peace there.
i know you are happy there.
i love you baby.
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01-24-2010, 08:52 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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Originally Posted by hakeem
maya has been put to sleep at 4.00pm today.
she has been infected by FIP as per the vet.
i could not stand to see her suffered so, with a heartbreaking decision..i asked the vet to let her go peacefully.
for the past 2 weeks i have cared for her.but it seems that the virus is too strong for her and at last she gave in.
i am sorry guys if my action is considered as cruel or inhumane.
the last few minutes with her, i told her that i really love her and i asked for her forgiveness. she looked in my teary eyes as if she knows.i hope she knows how i loved her so deeply and dearly.
maya, may you rest in peace there.
i know you are happy there.
i love you baby.
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I am sorry to hear about Maya Hakeem.
I know its painful to make that decision.
I myself went through that before when I had to put my Georgio down.
It was a heart wrenching decision.
I did not know if what I did was right or wrong
At the same time I did not want to see Georgio suffer
So I did what was best for him like you did for Maya.
Please be strong my friend.
Take care.
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01-24-2010, 09:03 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
thanks sis.
i hope it was for her own good.
i cried there at the clinic.
i was away from the forum and such bcos i was with her all this 2 weeks.
this is my second loss after dania passed away due to jaundice.
i do not know if i can take this anymore.
perhaps, i am not destined to have cats around me.
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01-24-2010, 10:16 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
salam hakeem,
kak zai pun telah kehilangan my ella kerana virus FIP in Sept 2008
she left a very big hole in my heart
skrg ada 4 kucing, tapi tak sama dgn ella
she was a very special cat
R.I.P. Maya...
be strong hakeem
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01-25-2010, 12:00 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
thanks kak
tapi sampai skang saya masih tertanya whether i have done the right choice or not...whether we hv the right to take away another being's life....i do hope ALLAH will forgive me if so...
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01-25-2010, 12:57 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
salam, sorry to hear, must have been really hard to make the decision, be strong kay hakeem, by the way, what is FIP virus? I don't knw musch abt diseases or infections in cats...
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01-25-2010, 08:39 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
hakeem.
sabar yer.
tuhan lebih menyayangi maya berbanding kita.
maya tau hakeem dah sadaya upaya cuba selamatkan dia.
tapie dah ditakdirkan, dia milik Tuhan.
bukan milik kita lagie.
memang sangat sedey put to sleep
tapie jika pilihan itu lebey baik
kita berdoa saja.
supaya penderitaan dia tidak penjang.
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01-25-2010, 09:27 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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Originally Posted by Oshyn
salam, sorry to hear, must have been really hard to make the decision, be strong kay hakeem, by the way, what is FIP virus? I don't knw musch abt diseases or infections in cats...
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thanks oshyn..
FIP=feline infections peritonitis...u can try google the thing.
i even dreamt of her last nite...
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01-25-2010, 09:28 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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hakeem.
sabar yer.
tuhan lebih menyayangi maya berbanding kita.
maya tau hakeem dah sadaya upaya cuba selamatkan dia.
tapie dah ditakdirkan, dia milik Tuhan.
bukan milik kita lagie.
memang sangat sedey put to sleep
tapie jika pilihan itu lebey baik
kita berdoa saja.
supaya penderitaan dia tidak penjang.
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thanks sis.
i hope i have made the right decision tho.
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01-25-2010, 11:04 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
im sorry for ur lost hakeem..we do have choices right??do we want to see our loved suffer??dont think so..u did the best..and i believed she knew that u loved her very much..be strong my friend..
RIP - MAYA..
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01-25-2010, 11:18 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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im sorry for ur lost hakeem..we do have choices right??do we want to see our loved suffer??dont think so..u did the best..and i believed she knew that u loved her very much..be strong my friend..
RIP - MAYA..
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thanks gabriel.
yea..i do hope that is best for her.
but i can still remember her eyes looking at me the last few minutes i spent with her. she looked at me as if she knows that im gonna do that to her. i cried when i told her that this is the best for her and i dont want her to suffer anymore. i was outside the room as i could not stand to see the moment the doctor put her to sleep. i just couldnt.
Maya,i hope you are happy in heaven with Dania.
i love you both with all my heart.
thanks for being there for the last 6 happy months. both of you bring joy to my life.
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01-25-2010, 11:36 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
Very sorry to hear about your Maya, Hakeem. It must be painful to make that decision on a loved one. Please do not blame or be hard on yourself.
Remember those wonderful times that both of you had together.
Be strong Hakeem.
Take care.
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01-25-2010, 01:01 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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thanks sis.
i hope it was for her own good.
i cried there at the clinic.
i was away from the forum and such bcos i was with her all this 2 weeks.
this is my second loss after dania passed away due to jaundice.
i do not know if i can take this anymore.
perhaps, i am not destined to have cats around me.
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Hakeem,
Tak tahu nak cakap apa...sebak dada bila baca ur posting...So sorry for ur loss...
Jgn la putus asa, kebetulan kejadian yg tak diingini berlaku kat u. Takes time for u to heal. But be strong k? I'm sure, both Dania & Maya loved u so very much...
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01-25-2010, 02:24 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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Originally Posted by clover
Very sorry to hear about your Maya, Hakeem. It must be painful to make that decision on a loved one. Please do not blame or be hard on yourself.
Remember those wonderful times that both of you had together.
Be strong Hakeem.
Take care.
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thanks clover.
this is my second loss.
i adopted her to replace dania.
but she too went away.
i do hope we can meet at the afterlife.
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01-25-2010, 02:29 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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Hakeem,
Tak tahu nak cakap apa...sebak dada bila baca ur posting...So sorry for ur loss...
Jgn la putus asa, kebetulan kejadian yg tak diingini berlaku kat u. Takes time for u to heal. But be strong k? I'm sure, both Dania & Maya loved u so very much...
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thanks kuntum..
u know what kuntum.
mmg yg special ones Allah ambik dulu kan..
mcm dania dulu, she was the one who was overly manja..
she even massaged me whenever i lay down on the sofa.
she would come,mengiau abit then she did her stuff.
as for maya, she is the quietest one.even bila nak bagi makan pun, she never meowed. she only looked u in the eyes and wait patiently for her food. bila time tido plak, she always sleep at the corner of my bed. then bila she feels that she needs attention, baru dia jumps on the bed n asks me to belai n usap dia puas2.
God, i do miss them a lot.
luckily i have tons a pics n video with them.
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01-29-2010, 02:32 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
OMG !!! . MAYA RIP ?? what happen hakkem..? camne kucing leh dpt virus FIP tu yer? padahal indoor jer semua kucing2 tu kan..? sorry for you .. and MAYA too ... . Apa sintom2 kucing yg kena virus ni..??
sedih kan.. bile kesayangan kita pergi.. hakeem, post for me latest picture of maya before she gone .. walaupun lin tak lama dgn MAYA tp lin pun terasa jugaa.... kalo lin tau hidup dia tak lama, maybe lin takan letgo pd sesapa. atleast, lin boleh bersama dgn dia lama sket... .. Tasya...maafkan mama sayanggg....
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01-29-2010, 03:21 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
relax..let the bygone be the bygone..
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01-29-2010, 03:24 PM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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OMG !!! . MAYA RIP ?? what happen hakkem..? camne kucing leh dpt virus FIP tu yer? padahal indoor jer semua kucing2 tu kan..? sorry for you .. and MAYA too ... . Apa sintom2 kucing yg kena virus ni..??
sedih kan.. bile kesayangan kita pergi.. hakeem, post for me latest picture of maya before she gone .. walaupun lin tak lama dgn MAYA tp lin pun terasa jugaa.... kalo lin tau hidup dia tak lama, maybe lin takan letgo pd sesapa. atleast, lin boleh bersama dgn dia lama sket... .. Tasya...maafkan mama sayanggg....
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yea linda...
saya kena put dia to sleep sbb tak sanggup nak tgk dia menderita.
2 vet saya bawak...1st vet ckp dia flu...pastu dh seminggu tak baik2..saya g vet yg kedua...dia yg ckp mgkn kena jangkitan FIP..maya tak mau makan langsung..saya kena paksa dia makan dgn syringe...minum jer..pastu bila dia pee...saya t gk takda apa yg kluar...so..g kat vet ketiga...dia buat blood test bagai..dia kata dh kena FIP...nothing much i can do...
so, i have no choice linda...sedih mmg sedih....tapi harap dia bahagia kat sana dgn dania...
i love both of them so dearly...
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02-02-2010, 07:32 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
Hakeem,
I was wrote some article about The decision to euthanize is one of the hardest you’ll have to make, but it’s the most humane way to say goodbye to old friend who’s in pain. Don’t expect your veterinarian to make this decision for you, he or she will support and console you, but it is up to you to know when to let go. Don’t let your cat suffer more than she has to. Call your veterinarian when you know it's time and let him or her you don't to wait in the waiting room. Schedule an exact time to come in. Take your friend yourself, wrapped in her favorite blanket with a favorite toy or treat. Remember, the last sensations your cat will experience are the sound of your voice and your reassuring smell, the things she loved during her life.
Rest in peace.
Petfinder.my have this pet memorial section, it can keep story cat and dog with human.
Keep petfinder.my alive, your cat soul will with here together.
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Originally Posted by hakeem
maya has been put to sleep at 4.00pm today.
she has been infected by FIP as per the vet.
i could not stand to see her suffered so, with a heartbreaking decision..i asked the vet to let her go peacefully.
for the past 2 weeks i have cared for her.but it seems that the virus is too strong for her and at last she gave in.
i am sorry guys if my action is considered as cruel or inhumane.
the last few minutes with her, i told her that i really love her and i asked for her forgiveness. she looked in my teary eyes as if she knows.i hope she knows how i loved her so deeply and dearly.
maya, may you rest in peace there.
i know you are happy there.
i love you baby.
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02-02-2010, 11:08 AM
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Re: :::Selamat Tinggal Maya:::RIP:::
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Hakeem,
I was wrote some article about The decision to euthanize is one of the hardest you’ll have to make, but it’s the most humane way to say goodbye to old friend who’s in pain. Don’t expect your veterinarian to make this decision for you, he or she will support and console you, but it is up to you to know when to let go. Don’t let your cat suffer more than she has to. Call your veterinarian when you know it's time and let him or her you don't to wait in the waiting room. Schedule an exact time to come in. Take your friend yourself, wrapped in her favorite blanket with a favorite toy or treat. Remember, the last sensations your cat will experience are the sound of your voice and your reassuring smell, the things she loved during her life.
Rest in peace.
Petfinder.my have this pet memorial section, it can keep story cat and dog with human.
Keep petfinder.my alive, your cat soul will with here together.
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thanks dude..
really appreciate your input.
i am at peace now knowing that she is happy there with dania.
maya & dania, i love you both.
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