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Old 09-03-2010, 01:32 PM
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Default Re: Irresponsible & Unconsiderate Owner!!

first of all sasha, its not that i am making a big fuss, but the only thing i am doin is, typing out as it is.

1. your condition doesnt allow you much to own a any cats, and you know that you cant even deal beforehand and same goes for the outcome.

2. the call that you said you are busy doing stall business. is this even part of the importance here of tellin that you are not capable of taking care of them?

3. i would call any people that treats adoption this way "irresponsible", but the outcome did not come out this way like you did. shah was there to collect back the cats from muhammad also, shah saw everything, the outcome wasnt like this, because we understand they are giving the best reason. and you are not.

4. to answer your "why not just keep them on my own", ive already made a decision to give away, and the most important is to find a good responsible owner that has got what it takes to take care of them, not just some pee & poo issue that will dump them. think again, if you were to do that when you were small, do your parents dump you away? this is a very sad thing i see in you and you just tensed up because they wont do like what i mentioned to you, you wont give time to the cats to be comfortable. how can you expect them to feel comfortable in 3days? i bet you must be shouting alot to them when you are cleaning the pee & poo. i cant say this is true, but it'll affect them to hide more. and by opening all toilet doors, its not a really good idea, they should hv focused in just 1 place to pee & poo, as you said, you are expecting them to shit at 1 spot all the time, do you tend to think that they will react how humans does when we see any toilet that we will just go in and do our stuff in just any toilets??? come on... you know they are "cats"!!! you are saying that you hv more than 20years of cat experiences yet you cant bear with their behavior of stress pee & poo around the house and you dont even know that. by taking care of 20 stray cats, i do not believe that each and everyone is being cared fairly cos i have experience looking at other ppl's 20 stray cats too. it is tottaly different case from this to own a home-d base cat.

5. witnessess or no witnessess, from what i hv written here in PF says everything clear and accurate about you giving up of adoption just like snappin' fingers. there is no making up stories.

6. fyi, lobak and kacang's parent (mami & kiddie) were adopted by me, they dont even know where to pee & poo. what me and my family did was to train them to do it in the toilet area. how can you expect them to sit on the toilet bowl? unless i stated, toilet bowl-trained. and i believe during the conversation on phone before that, i did tell that they will pee & poo in the toilet ground.

7. you typed "He didn't believe me at first saying, 'How did the cat climbed the sink?', as in cats don't climb..?" <<< the first intension of my question did not say "as in cats don't climb?" i understand how you feel is mad, but can you at least react more polite at the first place of not telling me to clean up the poo until i reach or leave it as it is, its like as though i never see them pee & poo else where before they were trained. and my experience with them, they would never pee & poo on the sink, and that's my initiative of asking a new thing that i dont even hear about them even from the previous adopter. and i actualy replied, unless there's something that they dont like in the toilet and they will find any other places to replace their routine of pee & poo. dont you agree viewers?

8. when you dont even answer your parent's or friend's call at the first place, it sure gives an impression that you are making a fool out of this adoption. if you are this busy, then i dont think you can handle cats. you are saying you hv 20years of exp, how can you even count your exp when you are still a child? you dont even do it yourself.

9. yes i do not know you well, but your reaction towards this adoption progress shows just enough for me to see how irresponsble and quick in giving up in you. you acted you cant accept the fact that you have to clean it no matter where is drops.

10. for the idea of giving some tips to you to guide them to pee & poo in a proper place, when i told you to try mop and clean the areas well with citrus added soap, so as to ensure they wont pee & poo at the place again, you even replied in facebook that "perhaps i should use acid to mop". <<< who doesnt feel scared after seeing "acid"?

11. lastly, the most important thing said by you is that beforehand during our conversation, you added, "even they are not toilet trained, i can still train them." so what happen to this liner?

i would say, i over reacted because i cant stand how you reacted to me was so impolite. when i say impolite, it is to me and the cats as well. i am doin this in PF cos i am doing professionally. i definitely would not want to see any other victims.

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