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Thumbs up Cats 101 : Getting Your First Cat - Part 8 Making Kitty a Family Member for Life

Making Kitty a Family Member for Life
By Franny Syufy, About.com

If you've stuck with these lessons, you're well on your way to a lifelong relationship with your cat. As time passes, your bonding will become stronger than ever, and you will consider your cat a valued family member rather than a pet.

Congratulations for caring enough about your cat to stay the course! Today is graduation day and you can officially call yourself an ailurophile.

A Pet or a Family Member?

"R" is for "Responsibility"
Since you've stuck through a pretty intensive course, you probably already have the makings of a responsible cat caregiver. Don't pass this article by, though; it also contains helpful information on how you can help others learn to wear that coat of responsibility

The Feline-Human Bond of Love
Most people who share their homes with cats profess to love them. However, there's a definite dividing line between those who look on their cats as "pets" or even "property," and those who consider them treasured family members. I bet I know which side of that line you are on. You're in good company, you know.

If you've stuck with these lessons, you're well on your way to a lifelong relationship with your cat. As time passes, your bonding will become stronger than ever, and you will consider your cat a valued family member rather than a pet.

Congratulations for caring enough about your cat to stay the course! Today is graduation day and you can officially call yourself an ailurophile.

A Pet or a Family Member?

"R" is for "Responsibility"
Since you've stuck through a pretty intensive course, you probably already have the makings of a responsible cat caregiver. Don't pass this article by, though; it also contains helpful information on how you can help others learn to wear that coat of responsibility.

Kittens are adorable, aren't they? Even the hardest heart will soften at the sight of soft, cuddly balls of fur. But kittens grow up all too soon, and unless their human guardians educate themselves in the proper care and training of their feline companions, they may become cats with unpopular habits, such as soiling antique rugs and scratching your new leather recliner. At times like these, without their protective cloaks of cuteness, cats may be looked on by some people as "disposable goods," and thus the line is drawn between cat owners and cat lovers.

The shelters are full of them, these throwaway cats and dogs, whose only crimes were having the misfortune of being the pets of people who considered them "property" rather than "family."

This tendency is a product born of a societal attitude ingrained over several generations, from times when pets were valued only for their contribution to the family unit. Dogs were valued as sheep and cattle herders, hunting companions, or to guard the homestead. Cats, on the other hand were regarded as "mousers," and every farm had its barn cats for that purpose, proliferated generation after generation, with the reward for their toils consisting of an occasional saucer of milk, along with as many mice as they could catch. No one thought too much about the death of a barn cat - there were always plenty more to take their place. And die, they did, from disease, predators, or infections from untreated wounds.

Societal Changes

As society changed and more and more people moved away from the farm, many brought a cat or two along for company. The concept of pedigree cats and cat shows in the late 19th century brought with it a new awareness of the cat as a companion, and even "moggies" benefitted from this new concept.

Sadly though, because of the continued failure of many irresponsible people to spay and neuter their pet cats, we are burdened with a cat overpopulation problem. Consider the endless loop this creates; where one form of irresponsibility foments another:

1. Indiscriminate breeding, intentional or not, creates an excess of cats.
2. An excess of cats makes it easy for a careless cat owner to "trade in" or otherwise dispose of a cat that doesn't "work out." The mindset of pets as property often means that last year's kittens soon lose their luster as quickly as last year's car model or computer, both of the latter which will also fail to perform if not properly maintained.

Although spay/neuter laws have been passed with varying degrees of success in some cities, responsibility simply cannot be legislated; instead, it must be learned.

Since for the most part I'm probably "preaching to the choir," you might be wondering, "okay, what does this have to do with me? How can I teach responsible pet ownership to someone else?" Here are some suggestions, for starters:

By Example:

* Spay and neuter your own pets.
* Practice proper litter box management- keep them scrupulously clean.
* Supply your cats with a variety of legitimate scratching surfaces, along with claw trimming or Soft Paws, in lieu of declawing (the easy way out).
* Feed your cat a nutrionally balanced diet.
* Don't try to bypass veterinary care. In the end, it is poor economy, and your cat could ultimately pay the price with his life.
* Take time every day to play with your cats. You are creating treasured future memories.

By Gentle Persuasion:

* Encourage everyone you know to spay or neuter their pets. Familiarize yourself with all the excuses, and prepare a compelling argument to each excuse.
* Learn more about declawing and its humane alternatives, and speak out when you hear of someone's intentions to have this procedure done on their cat. Keep in mind that they probably have the kindest intentions but may not have all the facts they need to make an educated decision.
* Volunteer at your local shelter and talk to potential cat adopters about the serious responsibilities they are taking on.
* Write letters to the editor.
* Study, practice what you learn, and study some more.

You may find your new avocation so addictive that you'll soon be able to refer to yourself proudly and accurately as an animal advocate.

Welcome to the club! You'll find the weight of responsibility much lighter when it is shared with others of a like mind, and you're in good company - the best company on this planet, because you care.


The Feline-Human Bond of Love

Most people who share their homes with cats profess to love them. However, there's a definite dividing line between those who look on their cats as "pets" or even "property," and those who consider them treasured family members. I bet I know which side of that line you are on. You're in good company, you know.

Teach a Kid Respect for Animals
It comes as no surprise that the future of our planet and the creatures we share it with depends on what young people are learning today. What they learn today about respect and responsibility for not only pet cats and dogs, but for all the animals that share our planet, will go a long way in molding the future of our world.
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