Taken from:
http://www.bestfriends.org/nomorehom.../fostering.pdf
Becoming a Foster Home
How you can save a life by giving a
temporary home to a shelter animal.
By Faith Maloney
Being a foster home is not easy. Taking animals into your own
home, loving them, and then letting them go requires a very particular
kind of ability.
Fostering isn’t for everyone, but for Chaz and Jean Blackmore
it’s the only way to go. They decided that, along with their own
dogs Jaspar and Cody, they would provide a temporary home to
one foster dog at a time.
“The dogs do everything with us,” says Chaz. “They go jogging
with us and they go for car trips. In the case of Tika, a black
lab mix, she went with us on our honeymoon. She got to meet
moose, deer, and mountain goats, and she found her new family
while we were in Aspen. Her new people were vacationing there
at the same time as us. They really connected with Tika, so when
we got home, we arranged for her permanent adoption.
Every day, thousands of dogs just like Tika don’t ever make it
into a new home simply because there is no room in shelters and
humane societies to take them all. Foster homes offer a vital alternative
to this sad situation.
Barbara Conrad of Salt Lake City has been a foster mom to
hundreds of cats and dogs over the years. She volunteers her services
for the Humane Society of Utah. This year, Best Friends
honored her as Person of the Year at our awards ceremony here in
our home state of Utah.
Barbara, a modest woman, shrugs off her achievements, pointing
out that there are many other people like her who enable precious
lives to be saved.
“Fostering is very important to each animal, but especially to
cats,” said Barbara. “They get so depressed in a shelter, and consequently
often get really sick. They seem to be more sensitive
than dogs. And their anxiety, known as “cage depression,” can
make things worse for them because they then don’t look good to
potential adopters.
“Being able to have them spend time in a foster home before
going up for permanent adoption can mean the difference between
life and death for a lot of cats.”
In California, Linda and her husband Mike provide a foster
home for animals from their local rescue group. In three years,
they’ve placed about 150 animals.
But, however good the new homes, there’s always a potential
problem when you’re fostering an animal. In Linda and Mike’s
case, Mike falls in love with them all and never wants to let them
go!
“With every animal that comes through the door, he begs me to
keep it and add it to our own brood. If it’s with us for longer than
two weeks, he gets really upset when I find it a home. He pouts
for days, even when I tell him how happy our own cats are when
the interloper is finally gone. Then he’s delighted when the next
foster arrives and we go through it all again!”
While many people can’t let go, others are reluctant to foster
in the first place, thinking that it is somehow unfair to take in a
dog or cat, establish a bond, and then allow the animal to be adopted
out into another home. Isn’t that a second abandonment?
I used to feel like that myself. But once I saw how being in a
foster home helped a dog or cat find a quality permanent placement,
I changed my mind. Taking a stray or frightened animal
and showing him or her that people can be kind, that food is available,
and that there is a warm place to sleep, creates a marvelous
bridge to a new home. And those of us who provide foster space
know that there is never a shortage of animals that need this preparation
time before finding their own people.
Letting them go isn’t easy. Often, a foster home turns into a
permanent home. This is why all rescue, shelter, and humane societies
are always on the hunt for new foster homes.
Are you ready to give fostering a try? Then contact your local
humane society or rescue group and talk to them about it. Maybe
there will be some training involved, some papers to sign, and
then it’s back home with a new temporary family member.
If we are going to make a difference in the number of animals
killed each year because there is not enough space to house them,
then becoming a foster parent is a priority. It is important, valuable
work and, best of all, it saves lives.
You can download the Best Friends manual about foster care from
the No More Homeless Pets section of the Best Friends Web site at
www.bestfriends.org. Or write to Best Friends for a copy. (Please send
a large self-addressed, stamped envelope.)